Nothing’s to blame

You can’t always blame someone for the things that happen.
Sometimes, the greatest catastrophes are a result of the misfortunate union of a bad time with the wrong place.
But you can’t blame someone for the luck they are distributed, good or bad. Nobody would intentionally want anything bad to happen to them so it’s silly to think that they’d be at fault for it.

We never leave out house expecting of being stabbed while walking alone on the street in broad daylight or kidnapped while standing outside a coffees shop, if we lived trying to prophesize all our misfortunes we’d all be paranoid schizophrenics.
Which is why, we all start our day with a layout of the positive version of how we would like to spend it.

This doesn’t make us stupid, ignorant, naive or worthy of being blamed for an unforeseen attack, it just makes us human.

You can’t expect to live safely without being extra careful; the worlds too rotten a place.
You can’t expect to live blissfully while being extra careful; the world is too rotten a place.


Everything Means Something Now… ♔

  Everything means something now. Every glance, every sigh, every moment, it’s all adding up to building my palace of dreams. What I was so unused to has now become my reality. It seems like the time I spend there with him in his arms is my day, and out here alone, without him, is my dreary night. Seeing beyond him feels like a waste of time. The moments is spend around him are the ones that keep me alive, happy and energized. It’s like he’s my drug, and no matter how cliché this may sound, I for the first time know what it feels like to be addicted to something that keeps you high every millisecond you score it.

Every song I hear reminds me of him. Every lyric fills my mind with images of him and me holding me, embracing me, loving me, and I, silently but very truly falling deeper and deeper into his world. Drowning in his eyes barely seems suffocating. Believing every spell he casts has seized to feel silly.
I don’t know this feeling, but because of how he fills me with it I’m not afraid, not hesitant, as not only does he illuminate my world with glowing flames of passion and the warmth of love, but he seems to truly care about me. He wipes my tears so that I can comfortably make room for a much waited smile.

He shields me from the ice cold winds that would otherwise freely wear me down. He lifts my troubles onto his own shoulder and walks right by me even when I don’t need him to. Because he knows not needing him is a lie. I survive on him. I survive on the strength he gives me to fight another day.
When I’m alone with him, it feels like nothing else in the world matters. He fills the point of focus in an otherwise blurry picture. I see him clearly, smiling at me behaving foolishly but cherishing it none the less. The chords he strikes synchronize my heart beat. I’ve given myself to him in a way that I will not be able to recollect the shattered pieces I will be reduced to if he leaves me. For after all, when even glass shatters, the bigger more prominent pieces can be collected and glued back together, but the dust, the minute particles that hold those defined pieces together cannot and thus, the glass can never ever re-attain the beauty, the wholeness it once had.

How am I to convince him of this love? How am I to even show him that it exists in a way other then getting mesmerized every time he looks my way? How am I to convince myself of the reality that this may end? How will I live through it? Or will I just be reduced to another meaningless particle in this universe, timelessly suspended in a void so irreplaceable while life passes me by.

And the DrumBeat carries on..


Brilliant brains. Loads of Fun.

AShort NeurologicalTest

1-Find the C below..Please do not use any cursor help.


2- If you already found the C, now find the 6 below.


3 – Now find the N below. It’s a little more difficult.


This is NOT a joke. If you were able to pass these 3 tests, you can cancel your annual visit to your neurologist. Your brain is great and you’re far from having a close relationship with Alzheimer.



eonvrye that can raed this rsaie your hnad.

To my ‘selected’ strange-minded friends:

If you can read the following paragraph, forward it on to your friends and the person that sent it to you with ‘yes’ in the subject line.

Only great minds can read this 
This is weird, but interesting!

If you can raed this, you have a sgtrane mnid too

Can you raed this? Olny 55 plepoe out of 100 can.

I cdnuolt blveiee that I cluod aulaclty uesdnatnrd what I was rdanieg. The phaonmneal pweor of the hmuan mnid, aoccdrnig to a rscheearch at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy, it dseno’t mtaetr in what oerdr the ltteres in a word are, the olny iproamtnt tihng is that the frsit and last ltteer be in the rghit pclae. The rset can be a taotl mses and you can still raed it whotuit a pboerlm. This is bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not raed ervey lteter by istlef, but the word as a wlohe. Azanmig huh? Yaeh and I awlyas tghuhot slpeling was ipmorantt!

Now you know more!

 Interesting Little Thoughts…

‘Stewardesses’  []  is the longest word typed with only the left hand .. 

And ‘lollipop’  []  is the longest word typed with your right hand.  (Bet you tried this out mentally, didn’t you?) 

No word in the English language rhymes with month, orange, silver, or purple. [] []


‘Dreamt’ is the only English word that ends in the letters ‘mt’. (Are you doubting this?)
Our eyes  []  are always the same size from birth, but our nose [] and ears  []never stop growing.


The sentence: ‘The quick brown fox jumps over the lazy dog’ uses every letter of the alphabet.   (Now, you KNOW you’re going to try this out for accuracy, right?) 

The words ‘racecar,’  []  ‘kayak’  []  and ‘level’  [] are the same whether they are read left to right or right to left (palindromes).   (Yep, I knew you were going to ‘do’ this one.) 




There are only four words in the English language which end in ‘dous’: tremendous, horrendous, stupendous, and hazardous. (You’re not doubting this, are you?) 

There are two words in the English language that have all five vowels in order: ‘abstemious’ and ‘facetious.’ (Yes, admit it, you are going to say, a e i o u) 
TYPEWRITER   []   is the longest word that can be made using the letters only on one row of the keyboard.   (All you typists are going to test this out) 

A cat has 32 muscles in each ear.     []

A goldfish  []  has a memory span of three seconds. (Some days that’s about what my memory span is.) 

A ‘jiffy’ is an actual unit of time for 1/100th of a second. []

A shark  []  is the only fish that can blink with both eyes.

A snail  []  can sleep for three years.   (I know some people that could do this too.!) 
Almonds are a member of the peach  []  family.

An ostrich’s eye[] is bigger than its brain. 
(I know some people like that also)

Babies [] are born without kneecaps.  They don’t appear until the child reaches 2 to 6 years of age. 
February 1865 is the only month in recorded history not to have a full moon.  []

In the last 4,000 years, no new animals have been domesticated. 

If the population of China walked past you, 8 abreast, the line would never end because of the rate of reproduction. 

Leonardo Da Vinci invented the scissors 

Peanuts  []  are one of the ingredients of dynamite! []

Rubber bands[] last longer when refrigerated. 
The average person’s left hand does 56% of the typing. []

The cruise liner, QE 2, []moves only six inches for each gallon of diesel that it burns.

The microwave  []  was invented after a researcher walked by a radar tube and a chocolate bar melted in his pocket.   (Good thing he did that.)

The winter of 1932 was so cold that Niagara Falls  []  froze completely solid. 

There are more chickens [] than people in the world.

Winston Churchill []was born in a ladies’ room during a dance. 

Women blink[] nearly twice as much as men.
Now you know more than you did before!! 

Bloggers and Readers. Symbiotic. :)

What is it about blogging that makes the blogger want to blog and the reader want to read?

Sometimes there’s just the  angry, frustrated but creative writer who just needs a method or platform to anonymously let her feelings out and put them out there for the world to see and sympathize with.
Then there’s the helper, who writes about her own experiences in an attempt to assist those who seek help online.
There often is the blogger who very proudly just wants to dedicate a page to herself, so she doesn’t hide her identity.
And then there’s the ever so bored soul that just needed something to do and found out about blogging.
Either way, bloggers blog and everyday the web is blessed with works, some beautiful and some just simple, for people to read, process and enjoy.

And the only possible thing that keeps us bloggers blogging, is you readers reading.
So while we’re slogging it out blogging, please readers, do your jobs reading..
We promise to make it as interesting for you as possible 😉

Lights Will Guide You Home.. And Ignite Your Bones, And I Will Try, To Fix You <3

 I don’t even realize when I start to smile every time I think about him… the thought of not having him around scares the life out of my soul. His smile lightens up my darkest days, and when I’m about to break down the one tight hug he gives me holds me together. I can’t stay angry with him for long, because he knows exactly what to say and when to say it, and no matter how hard I try I can’t ignore him making his adorable puppy dog faces at me not responding to him… It kills me from inside when I see him with the other girls… I know being protective isn’t good, but I simply can’t help but telling all my friends that he’s all mine. The days that I don’t get to see him are a bunch that I don’t want to live through, and a moment without him seems incomplete. When I hear our song I get this deep feeling which lifts my heart out of my body and gifts it to him. every move he makes, every breath he takes, every word he speaks, every look he peeks, every smile he wears, all my pain he shares, every time I see him I feel as if I know I couldn’t do without him by my side, and I know very well that the day will come… and when It does god only knows what is going to happen to me… because then the only thing I live for, will be gone and I’ll be stuck hanging by a moment there with him, only that he won’t actually be there with me. He’ll leave me hanging there on my own and sure enough I’ll be stuck there till he comes and pulls me up again.

I wake up in the morning rushing to school to meet him. To see him. To hug him. to tell him that I love him and I can’t do without him. And when he promises me that he’ll always be there, I smile, knowing that forever is a word that can’t be used at this stage of life, but the secure feeling it promises is one that I need to feel. He tells me he loves me more than anything,.. and that I’d have to be inhuman to  be able to love him more… hearing this wipes the largest smile right across my face, something he lives to see. All my friends know how much he means to me, but if only they could understand that when I say I love him, I mean it. if anyone could experience true love at this age, I dare say that it would be me, and very surprisingly when I say that I could love him forever, even if i tell him things like I will love him to death, even if he leaves me standing in the cold winter winds, it doesn’t freak him out at all. if only he could see himself from my eyes and feel what I go through when he kisses me on my cheek, and holds my hand.

 He’s all I want… he’s all I need.. He’s the sole heir to my heart, and without him embracing my heart, it would surely shatter into a million pieces.. Some so small that they would be impossible to find ever again. It beats me how I can stand with him without wanting to hold his hand and tell him that every moment i spend with him together form the best moments of my life. When I’m with him, I need him to know that it can’t get better than this for me… and if during the journey ahead we do drift apart… I wouldn’t want him to cry over what we have lost, but to remember what we had and know… that for me, it was for sure the greatest thing ever on the face of earth.

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