Lights in Darkness.

 

Cast out the darkness,  but then don’t expect to see how bright the light is shining.

Completely illuminate your life, but then don’t expect to be able to tell the difference between artificial and natural light.

Don’t run way from your worries, the more you run, the more tired you will get.. and when they eventually do catch up to you, you will be too tired to fight them like you could have before.

Instead of trying to inspire the idea, try and inspire the person. Planting the seed deep enough will ensure a stronger gradual grip in comparison to a seed grown on the periphery.

Don’t take anything for granted. Even a day free of infection is due to the millions of cells fighting off the bacteria you constantly breathe in. Every day without infection is a battle won.

If you take the fact that your father comes home after work every evening for granted, ask a child whose father just died what he would do for that to happen to him one more time.

If you want to know what regret feels like, then ask a smoker with lung cancer, who wishes he had listened to his loved ones when they begged and warned him to stop.

Darkness can only rule you over when you blow out the candle, or leave the window open to blow the candle out for you just in case you need something else to blame.

Nobody except for you is responsible for the things that happen to you.
If you have been mistreated, it’s only because you allowed someone to do you wrong.
It’s only human to try and find something or someone to blame your problems on.
Try and figure out any possible excuse to make yourself believe that it wasn’t your fault, just so that you can get some closure.

But sometimes, think realistically.

Your expensive bag wouldn’t have gotten stolen if you would have been more careful.
Your house wouldn’t have been broken into if you would have invested in better security software.

You wouldn’t have been broken up with if you would have chosen the right kind of guy in the first place.

Then the question will arise in your mind of How you were supposed to know it was going to happen. Right?
Well it’s quite simple. You didn’t. You couldn’t have. There’s no way of telling what curved balls your life is going to throw at you.
But you must remember. Even though you didn’t know the consequence, at the end of the day YOU are the one who made the choice, or let someone else make the choice for you.
So you are the one accountable for it.

Instead of wasting your time harboring hatred for someone, try spending that same amount of energy fixing what went wrong.
You’ll suddenly notice that you’re a lot better off than you were when you spent your time cursing people.

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Where there is a will, there is a way.!

Last year, my high school had taken my batch on an outstation trip to a tiger reserve in Ranthambore. One of the many activities we did out there was rappling. We were taken to a river where we sat down by the boulders and stones and were briefed on how to carry out the forthcoming activity. The activity was of course, an optional one, so we were all asked if we would like to take part in it or not. Being one of the few who opted to try rappling, i realised that we as humans fall into three, very distinct categories : The wills, the won’ts and the can’ts.

Every now and then through the course of life we come across various obstacles that we will have to overcome in order to move ahead. The outcome of this is completely dependent on how we choose to respond to the challenge we are facing.

Some people confidently say that they will go ahead and try to move past it, most of which suceed due to their determind frame of mind and fearless attitude.
Some say they would simply not want to try moving past it at all. These are the one’s who oppose the situation, carefully watvhing the task at hand to find any fault which could help them firmly disapprove of the task that has to be done.
The third type however, decide that the task that has been given to them is impossible without even trying and therefore it cannot be done. as a result, these type of people obviously lose out on many of the opportunities that life has to offer simply because they could not even bother giving themselves a chance.


I as an individual, strongly believe that nothing is impossibe and that any task that has to be done can be done if we think openly and find a way to do it. this is why i can proudly say that those who believe in themselves, fall in the “will ” category. Quoting the phrase, “Where there is a will there is a way,” I believe these people will, with adequate amounts of hard-work and patience, achieve their goals in life.

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